Positive or Negative - Right Reading Doubts

Has that doubt hit you, you have just pushed the SEND button and it hits you “Did I do the right reading?”

This week I received a simple question “Will my boy friend propose sometime soon?” Now not being sure on yes / no readings I plumped for a relationship reading.

The Spread, one out of the Biddy Tarot Starter Kit.

What you want from the relationship.

What they want from the relationship.

Where is the relationship heading.

The cards (randomly taken from the pack, not straight from the top).

5 of Coins                            6 of Coins                            Strength

Simple version of my reading (positive)

5 of Coins - She has wants           

6 of Coins - He wants and is able to fulfill her wants, as he wants it to.

Strength - Relationship gets stronger.   

Reading done, happy with it, PRESS SEND, Oh heck - did I get that right or was it all negative

5 of Coins - She has wants           

6 of Coins - He’s a selfish pig wasting all his cash and time on friends etc

Strength - She is going to have to find an inner strength to maintain the relationship or end it.

OR

5 of Coins – She’s a money grabbing cow who wants more and more of everything.

6 of Coins – All he does is supply her with more money, more gifts, more everything

Strength - He is going to have to find an inner strength to maintain the relationship or end it.

And I should think you could come up with your own interpretations.

But on the face of it a simple question and a simple 3 card spread

Was me initial reading right?

I am a fairly positive person, seeing good in most people and things, did this influence my judgement  and reading did I unconsciously want to give a good positive reading?

As you see, there were no cups in this reading, no emotions, relationships, matters of the heart, I took this as we didn't need to touch on this, as their feelings / love for each other are secure OR is it that love is missing from one or both people, was she asking about him proposing to her for reasons other than love?

So you buy a Tarot Card Pack and you learn what each card means, someone asks for a reading, you shuffle the cards, pick the cards, lay out the spread, you look at the cards and explain what they mean, sounds so easy, doesn't it but we know better.

At the time of this reading, what I was getting fitted, felt right and flowed, I am referring to books less and less and not at all for this reading and I am relying on my intuition and instincts more.

So again was my initial reading right, I think so, I believe so, I feel so but as you know I have to wait for the feedback to know so.